The Law of Attraction meaning. Why it is not Working?

The Law of Attraction meaning. Why it is not Working?

It is not real

Yes of course, the law of attraction is not working for you, I hear you.  I am asked constantly about why the law of attraction seemingly does not work for a lot of people. This ѕubjеct is more of a hot topic than any other. It is one of the most difficult to еxplain in a manner that people can really understand and then apply to their lives.

Many of my followers on social media and readers often ask why they cannot get the law of attraction to work for them.  They claim to read, study and practice what “gurus” tell them to do. And they still are not able to manifest their desires.

I won’t beat around the bush, and I am going to be very blunt about my answer: You cannot put the law of attraction in motion if you cannot control your mind! Period.

Your pride, controlled by your Ego will not like what I just said. Some will probably just read this and not take it in. Probably just archive it in their thoughts. As always, you have the free will to continue reading and try to apply it to your experiences. Or just choose not to heed the law’s call.



The price tag

A lot of popular teachers sell the law of attraction as a sexy way to get all your desires in life. There are a ton of programs and courses on this. Let me tell you though, the only certification acceptable in my book is real life application and experience. No one has the right to be called a teacher if they are just mouthing what they learn from others. One must know and experience in order to teach.

My experiences in applying the law and getting the expected, favorable outcomes is really the only certification I have that I am proud of. Aside from the experiences I am told by ones I train to utilize the law through processes which I am, I believe, an expert in.

I am an expert in the law of attraction because I do practice the law of attraction every day, in every aspect of my life. I am a very proud Mother to have been able to teach my child this and have him experience the fruits of applying the law, which even adults can only dream about.

I have no iota of doubt in my mind that the law of attraction is real. It works without fail and is at your disposal, and on demand. There is no set time and place for this to work. There are no accessories necessary. You just need you, whenever and wherever you want to use it.


The law of high vibration

Again to reiterate, you do need to have full control over your mind. You need to maintain a high vibration as well. This is possible if you are mindful and in full control of that grey matter. You cannot manifest for anyone else, and no one else can manifest for you!

As Albert Einstein once succinctly expressed: “You cannot solve any problem with the same mindset that created it.” Isn’t that so true! Once you learn how to work with and use your mind, you are privy to limitless potential. That is why I say there is indeed infinite abundance in everything! This is only possible with the correct mindset, one that is as limitless as the universe as well. If your mindset is limited, then there is no infinite universe to use it on.



Science of nature

Our span of attention nowadays is almost non-existent. It seems to be getting shorter, because some people always want to take the easy way out. To use technological tools outside of themselves to make things happen. The use of other tools apart from your brain is limited. Those tools need to be updated and they do break down.  About science behind 6 Science Facts That Prove That The Law Of Attraction Exists

Get a mindful grasp of your limitless mind and see that there will be less need for resets and updates. The awareness of what is within you is the most powerful tool necessary to get things done. The law of attraction is as real. It may be proven as fact by Scientific studies. It may be available to us as natural law. And it is definitely similar to the reality of the law of gravity.

As it is a fact that when a material thing falls from a shelf, it will definitely hit the ground. The law of gravity is constant. It is expected. The law of attraction is as real and should be expected to work if we have the right mindset and vibration.



Why this is not working for me?

I get asked more about this subject than any other. And it is one of the most difficult to explain. To explain in a manner that people really know and understand how to apply it in their life. Many of my readers worldwide ask me why they can’t seem to get the Law of Attraction to work for them.

They read, study, and practice what many teachers tell them to do and they still cannot manifest their desires in life. The answer is simple and I’m going to be blunt about it. You cannot control the Law of Attraction unless you can control your mind! Period!

Your Ego probably doesn’t like this statement and will tell you it’s not true. Your Ego will allow you to read this Whisper. But it will attempt to have it dismissed from your mind and filed away and move you on to other thoughts. As always, it is your choice to read this, then know it, then apply it into your life. Here you can see more different perspectives about it: Quora -Why does the law of attraction never work in my case?  



Many so-called ‘gurus’ sell the Law of Attraction as a sexy new way to get what you want in life. And they make tons of money with their courses and programs. There is no doubt the Law of Attraction is real, it always works without fail, and is at your disposal on demand.

But you have to have a high enough level of control of your mind to make it work. Albert Einstein said, remember:  “You cannot solve any problem with the same mindset that created it!” So the only “guru” is yourself: Does the Law of attraction really work?

Once you learn HOW to think the proper way and begin to control your mind for periods of time you gain access to the limitless potential. Potential of everything you want in life through a change in your mindset. In our world today our attention spans are practically non-existent. It seem to be getting shorter all the time in the high tech society we live in.

This seemingly magical source called the Law of Attraction is a proven fact of quantum science studies. It is available to us as a Natural Law similar to the Law of Gravity. If you din’t until now, I recommend you the watch this movie What the bleep do we know  it is marvelous.

You know for a fact that if you trip and fall the Law of Gravity is going to cause you to hit the ground. The Law of Attraction is just as powerful and real as the Law of Gravity. The law follows the idea that what you focus the majority of your thoughts on, what you feel most about, and how your mind allows you to act in different circumstances, conditions and events; with different people and living things; will impact the style of life you will attract and live on a daily basis.



Attraction at work

The law of attraction never fails to work. It affects every person on the planet and differs in effect as much as we have unique thoughts and feelings over a certain subject matter. We may not understand all the scientific principles of it but that doesn’t change the fact that it works. And therefore, it has rules. These rules, if followed, will get you closer to being able to design your lives the way you want to, without any other external or technological help.

Rule ONE: You must control your mind and thoughts. Even better you have to want to direct your own thoughts. There is no point in learning Rule two if you can’t get past Rule one. Your Ego didn’t like that did it again?

The fact is your thoughts and feelings and actions have defined exactly the type of life you are living as you read these words. To be quite honest, if you are miserable, I apologize for being the bearer of bad news, but you are doing it to yourself. Don’t compare yourself to other people, because Ms. Happy Everyday does not have the same mindset as you. It is not a woe-is-me situation. She makes herself happy, and you bring about depression to yourself.

Where you are now is a direct result of all your past thoughts, feelings, and actions. You need to believe and accept this truth. You need to KNOW that you create your own reality! Think hard about this for a moment. Observe where you are right now in life. Here you can read more: A secret of Attraction law .



Think outside the box

You are right where you put yourself using the Law of Attraction without even knowing it. Only when you accept the reality of this truth can you begin to use the law of attraction with purpose and not think of your life circumstance as an accident or a stroke of luck, as most people do. But you simply cannot use this Law if you are not the controller of your thoughts and feelings.

Once you begin to practice controlling your mind, you may be able to do this for short periods of time, perhaps 17 seconds. It doesn’t matter time. Once you observe yourself controlling – directing your thoughts, then you have reached  the first step to learning how to make the law of attraction work.

When you learn to control your thoughts for a few seconds it will quickly turn into more. Then a minute. Then 5 minutes. Then longer. When you get to even 30 seconds or a minute you can FEEL the difference. In these short bursts of control is when you have the power to use the law of attraction on purpose.

All of my posts, articles and e-books should help you to learn the truths of self-discovery and living with mindfulness. This in turn will allow you to begin using the law of attraction in the correct manner that will bring you what you all you desire in life. Think outside the box, in this text you can read of the many ways to start doing it 5 reasons to accomplish anything .

Outside of these present moments of consciousness (control) the law of attraction will not be available to you WITH PURPOSE as you are using it unconsciously, as you have always done. If you keep thinking the same thoughts and feelings you have always had, then you will stay right where you are in life up to this point, attracting the same things you have always attracted.


Imagine the reality 

Can you imagine all the great things you can begin to bring into your life? During these periods when you are able to control your mind and use the law of attraction on purpose? Having full control and mindfulness is where you want to be. When you are at this point, when you are in control of your mind at greater spans of time then the law works like a well-oiled machine.

The control you have keeps growing rapidly because you can see and feel the difference in your awareness and consciousness. Your brain is functioning at its highest level when you are in control and giving your subconscious specific directions through your thoughts and feelings. It is at this time that your subconscious mind decides this is what you really want in life when you use the law of attraction on purpose and it will automatically move heaven and earth to bring your desires into your reality.

This is when you have the Law of Attraction working for you full speed. Your subconscious mind always accepts the conclusions of your conscious mind and is only there for you when you are in your present moment. In your NOW. You NOW is when you can use the law of attraction.



Natural state of consciousness

When we lapse into our normal awake-but-asleep state of mind, which we fill with chaos and worldly garbage, we lose control of our natural state of consciousness and the law of attraction is not available to us at this time on purpose. It is still working and attracting more of our present lifestyle to us but not necessarily what we want to attract. It is attracting more of what we are used to.

Using the Law of Attraction/Creation is not a secret. It should not be complicated. It should be deemed as a natural law of life and a natural occurrence to be able to design our lives the way we want to live it. The goal of using the Law of Attraction is to not want or need, but to begin to truly know what you desire. The law is there for you to use to create the life you want in your controlled mind then act and feel as if it is already yours from that moment forward and is real. Remember this is your reality.


Trust yourself

Then trust it will come to you and let it go and allow it to come when, where, and how God, Higher Power, or the Universe decides. The when, where, and how is not your decision and not for you to worry about! Your only job is knowing absolutely that you already have it because you designed and created it in your mind, and that it is coming. Look for the opportunities that will surely present themselves to you to make it manifest in your physical world. Trust your own feeling, this is one of my stories about it A control freak – let go!

Most of us focus only on what is happening on the outside of our life. Begin to focus on what is happening inside. Remember, what you desire is already formed in your life the instant you design it and create it in your mind with controlled thoughts and feelings and using the 5 senses to see it in your life already happening and KNOWING it is yours!


Example law

As an example, if you desire a new car – take a few minutes in a quiet place. Imagine every detail of this car in your mind. See how beautiful it is from the outside. What color is it? Walk up to it in your mind’s eye and see the beautiful inside and the new car smell. See yourself opening the door to the driver’s seat and sit on it. Play with all the buttons, the steering wheel. Drive it. Look at your family or significant others enjoying the ride as well. Feel how proud you are of this beautiful ride. Experience the feeling. Remember this feeling. Keep this feeling.

(This is a brief description of how to design what you want in life using the law of attraction. I did this and manifested the car I desired in a day. Mind you, it was almost an impossibility for me to get it. Remember though, infinite abundance, infinite possibilities, infinite universe.)

My point is that the more detail you imagine in your mind with controlled feelings and emotions ON PURPOSE, the more powerful your message to your subconscious mind and to the universe of what you desire will be.  You can design and create whatever you want in your mind. Just by using your imagination.

When you add great detail with imaginative thoughts and feelings and mental pictures ON PURPOSE WITH A CONTROLLED MIND you send a powerful message to your subconscious mind and to the universe that this is what you really want so it will all fall into place. Once you have designed and created this desire in your mind in detail it comes to life because you used controlled thoughts and feelings to send the message to your subconscious that this is now REAL for you.



Know it is REAL!

You can KNOW it is REAL because you have seen it in your mind in great detail with a high level of thinking and feeling. At that point IT IS REAL! It may not be here in your physical reality yet but it surely is a real thing in your mind and emotions the moment you create it.

Keep this detailed desire in your mind and re-create it as many times as you can in the coming days, weeks and months with the same thoughts, feelings and emotions and details. (Of course, you won’t have to, if it is manifested in the physical sooner. Here you can see some exercises 3 Law of Attraction exercises . I do still really believe that if you have the wherewithal to meditate, DO IT! If you want to learn more about how to manifest through meditation, my friends at can supplement my blog.

You can use this technique to design and create whatever you want in life. If your desire is to find the love of your life, getting a new job or business, new cars, more money, better health, saving animals, helping other people, or anything your mind can imagine and focus on that you are passionate about, then this can be your reality. No one on earth can stop you from knowing that what you desire in life is coming to you!



Your job is your state of mind

Your job is to simply choose the state of mind. With it you are now going to ALLOW your subconscious mind to bring everything you know is yours to come into your life physically. Tell your subconscious mind you now allow it to bring all you desire into your physical life. Whenever it is ready to bring it. Your job is not HOW or WHEN it will come. Your job is to see it coming and to see it there.

Imagine what you can do with this GIFT. The law of attraction is the most wonderful, hidden gift we have been given in life. So few on the planet know of it and know how to use it correctly. It is the best gift I know I have given to my child, because he has been practicing this since he was 3 years old. Once you learn to use the Law of Attraction correctly you will only be limited by what you dare to design and create in your future.



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